Changing schools can be challenging for children but can also open doors to new opportunities and friendships. When your child has to change schools, there are some ways to ease the adjustment process.
Contact the school to initiate the transfer process
Whether you have moved to a new community, are enrolling in a different district, or are enrolling in a private school, contact the school to start the transfer process.
The sooner you do this, the more likely the teachers in the new school will have the pertinent information they need to make the best educational decisions for your child from the beginning. When staff has relevant information before your child’s first day, your child has a better chance of success.
Spend time on the school grounds
If you have an elementary student, play on the new school’s playground. Attend sporting events or fine arts performances at the new school if possible. Scope out the drop-off and pick-up area, bus area, and parking lots. Help your child feel familiar with this place.
Get into the building
If you are switching schools at the beginning of a new school year, attend any informational meetings or open houses the school sponsors. If you are transferring mid-year, ask for a tour. After the tour or during the open house, ask permission to re-walk the most important routes your child will use.
Go over the path from the entrance of the building to the morning supervision area and the classroom. Your child will learn where most things are by traveling with the class, but practice the routes they will have to take alone to meet up with the class in the morning.
Finding the bathrooms will also make your child feel more comfortable.
Meet the teacher
Make arrangements for your child to meet the teacher(s). It is comforting for kids to know who their teachers are, what they look like, and that they are friendly and caring. If your child sees where their desk is and hears from the teacher about the schedule and routines, the first day of school will be easier.
Get school supplies
Ask for a list of school supplies for your child’s grade. You want your child to arrive at school prepared. The proper supplies will help them fit into the classroom flow more readily.
Ask your child who they hung out with during the day and who they sat with at lunch. Ask who they liked and who was kind to them. Encourage your child to continue bonding with those students, and try to set up out-of-school times for them to get together.
Check in with the teacher
Talk to the teacher after your child has been in school for a week or so. Ask how the teacher thinks your child is adjusting, and express how you feel things are going. Make sure to ask any questions you have and any questions your child has expressed at home. Share any concerns. You and the teacher can work together for the good of the child.
Changing schools is a big deal in the life of a child. By preparing in advance and being aware as your child begins the new school, you can help the adjustment go well for your child.